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A bully acts the way they do because you are different from them and it scares the crap out of them.

The bully doesn't know how to handle this difference and uses force, ridicule and slander to try to overcome their own weaknesses.

Please do not think that something is wrong with you, the problem lies with them and they are the ones who need to receive the counseling.

When you are different, you are perceived as a threat because the bully does not understand you.

When you are different it is a actually a good thing.

Different people are the Bill Gates of the world.

It means that you are not or cannot be mainstreamed into what the classmates, teachers, co-workers and advertisers want you to become as a person or consumer.

Ask yourself why bullies work so hard to have the latest clothes and toys so that they fit in?

Ask yourself why bullies work so hard to look and act like their peers?

Take a stand, dare to be yourself, dare to be different because God made you who you are and you are here for a purpose.

Don't die with your dreams still inside of you and don't let anyone stop you from going for your dream.

The best teams in the world are made up of different types of people.

The best team members challenge the status quo.

The best team leaders, teachers, supervisors and business owners will appreciate who you are even if it hurts to hear the truthful things you say to them.

Our school systems are designed to create automatons, they are not designed to accept people who take the road less traveled and who challenge the system.

Consider staying away from the system of consumerism and fitting in.

Consider doing something special with your life while the bullies of the world knock their heads against the wall trying to fit in.

If you are being bullied, please call me (Alan) at 616-634-3296 and I will do my best to help you.